In our endless search for love and finding our true vibrational match, how do we know when it's the real thing? And what have Twin Flames got to do with it?
We're taught love is hard, love is painful and love is a compromise. We are taught that love is blind, love is hard to find and that we should strive to love another unconditionally for true love to blossom. Well I think that's all rubbish. That's not the truth of love at all, unless we make it so by imposing our preconditioned experiences on top of the sublime, expansive and enlightening presence that True Love Is.
We create painful love by searching for love from a place of pain, a place of unmet need, a place of aching, longing, self sacrificing greed. We are starving to be met, and so we hunt. We devour our other of life essence in an attempt to satisfy the gut, the gutted inner child and empty yearning heart. And pain begets more pain. We feed from it, becoming addicted to it, deluded by it, caught in the trap of suffering, to be loved just enough to keep our heart beating and our life's meaning worth living...
Until we meet our nemesis, our equal and opposite force created to shatter the illusions and grandeur of painful love; Our anti-match, so opposing to our vibration that it shakes us, breaks us, and decimates the false premise that we are not truly loveable. This is part of the twin flame's game. We attract the shadow to show us our fears. We attract personification of our own self-love deficit and arrears. We attract a kind-of-love that makes it all clear where we have failed to love ourselves in truth and honour. But is this love true?
This anti-love, this painful love, this real-seeming love is the bomb to collapse the ego. It brings down defence towers. It levels the playing field. It equalises and demagnetises. Then Love's game can begin, with free reign to play if the players are willing to be open and be remade by Love. If not, the match must split, for two opposing forces cannot exist in the same space without destroying one another in the battle to secure tenure of Love. Exit Pain.
With self love we cleanse and restore the heart's wounds. With compassion we seek our own redemption. With humility we allow truth's soothing balm. We return to Grace, knowing our heart.
Enter Love. True Love, free Love, Love without condition. Love without compromise, Love without disgrace. Love without suffering. For Love has no attachment, it IS only Love. And so may two souls recognise the other, seeing the innocent, unfettered face of Love's Presence within.
Tara Love Perry.
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