Hello Angel - How's it going?
I invite you, right now, to sit back,
take a few deep, belly breaths
and drop your weight into your bottom. 
Aaaand R E L A X.

I present an invitation. The current energy is to 2 do things simultaneously...

Firstly, take the wheel. Seriously, Take it!
This is YOUR LIFE.
What are you gonna do with it?
How do you want the ride to be?
Where do you want to go, and who with?
You're the boss - sort it out. 
If you're carrying excess weight, baggage, passengers, stories, beliefs, relationship histories, old dreams, shoulds, coulds and would be's - Kick 'em out! (with love)
Similarly, but opposite, if you dropped someone of a while back but you need them on board with you now, go get 'em. They're waiting!
If you have out an outstanding debt of love, dreams or  wishes to give yourself - go get em.
Strike a great deal with yourself, make a contract, accept help, invite opportunities -
and  GO!

Next, simultaneously and paradoxically is,
be a happy passenger!
Even though you do have to show up and take responsible ownership of your life, 
it's not just you doing the driving.
It's actually not all up to you at all!
Imagine being 5 years old and sitting on your parent's lap in the driver seat of the car.
You're holding the wheel, but their feet are firmly on the pedals. 
Dad controls when you stop or go.
You're not yet big enough to handle THAT level of responsibility - no sir-ere! 
That's Big Stuff.
But get comfy sitting on the Creator's lap. You are held. You are loved.
Direct the way you want to go and feel like you're in control.
It's a great feeling. 
Life has got you. Your Divine Nature has control. Destiny is at work.
If a force beyond your control keeps taking the wheel and steering you away from something,
it's onlt because  it's not safe or right for you to go there.
You might hit a crash barrier, or a wall if you keep insisting.
Let go of the wheel til you re-centre.
Breathe.
Re-align your joy compass and try again.
Show up, decide, then relax and
Enjoy the RIDE! 

What direction are you going in?
What Are You Attracting on your journey? 
You are the driver - despite being little.
You are still responsible for your life whether you've taken the wheel and owned it, or not,because it was given to you. It was free. It's a gift. You can throw it away bit it's still yours. 
Everything you have in your journey of life is because you called it in
with your magnetic energy field.
What are you magnetising? 
Are you repelling or attracting what you want?

Maybe you need to change your magnetism!?

I spent a lot of this year neutralising an old magnet in me that had attracted painful relationships that didn't suit or fulfil me.
Negative attraction.
Not fun.
After first neutralising it - I had to re-magnetise it.
This meant re-calibrating to a whole new level of self worth.
It went up quite a few notches!
It meant I stopped doing certain other things and started doing more of what I REALLY LOVE.

Now I'm attracting what I want towards me simply by being creative, enjoying myself
and meditating in my own wonderful energy. 
I'm in LOVE with being in my body, on this earth, in my heart and my energy field -
I'm in bliss with the Creator.
I have attraction to just BEING myself.
And I have traction with my Creator Essence.

And that's what I want to tell you about too...
It's all about getting TRACTION with the road right now, 
being very present to what IS and what wants TO BE.
Grounded, real, connection. In you.
'The Inside' is the new 'Outside'.
Meaning; Reality is WITHIN you, not OUTSIDE of you.

Slow down at blind bends, breathe easy over the bumps.
How do your dreams land in your heart?
What do your high ideals feel like in practice?
If you really loved yourself within, and owned the road of your life,
What Would You be DOing?

...Talking of roads, let's think for a sec about what are they made of...
Tar.
Oil.
Well aged, decomposed matter that we have dredged to the surface and smeared over the earth.
So here's where our NOW meets our history. 
Here's where our future path meets our ancestral past.
Your feet need to touch base, make contact and walk in peace along this road made of rotten history.
Your tyres need traction with the road ahead, so get a good grip on this third dimensional reality, and face your fears.
Let the light of your awareness meet the dark stuff. 
The gap between worlds is closing. 
It's no more Them V Us.
No more Light V Dark.
It's Us and We and Together so it IS.
All and One = Everyone in it together. 
YAY!

A proper alchemical transformation from Duality to Unity.

There is only ONE reality my friend - and you know it as well as I do.
The only thing that counts at the end of the day. 
The only thing we keep when this life fades away.
The only thing worth dying for and 
The only thing that we actually live for - 
L O V E.

When we recognise Love's dance behind everything,
like the sun always beaming behind the clouds,
there's nothing more spectacular to feel grateful for. 
Just a glimpse of Love is enough to fill you with an appreciation that will break open a bleak horizon.
When we look closely and see that our roads are made of millions and billions and trillions of lives,
big and small, that all came and went a long time before us,
​just so that we can make a highway and go on a journey,
and feel connected to a path in Life - Now.
There's immense value in all that darkness. 
There's gold in that oil.
If the road to hell is paved with good intention, perhaps the road to heaven is covered in black, sticky death residue?

May we beam in Gratitude for the past.
May we honour in Gratitude the sacrifices and deaths that build a road for Life.
May we be in a state of Gratitude and walk in Peace  when we see the beauty and love in everything. 

Blessings for your road ahead!






 

​How do we make the world a better place?
It has to start within each one of us.
It tends to be the last place we look, 
as we reach out to others either trying to help them, 
or depend on them for our own sense of validation and worth.

Everyone says, "But you don't know my story!"  
"You don't know what I've been through".
Yes I do.
Everyone is broken to a degree. 
Everyone has been damaged.
Everyone has been let down by their parents. 
Everyone abused, abandoned and betrayed.
We all carry the helpless, innocent, victim child within us.
Healing and strengthening this child 
will bring you to a place of power.
You can own this power if you want to, 
it's already given.
Mostly it lays unclaimed, 
as if the responsibility to oneself is too great a task to uphold.
So you carry on bearing crosses, 
carrying the weight of the dead on your back, 
trudging miserably in self pity, unable to shed your grudges.
Waiting for another day to bring you rescue and respite.
Waiting for the one you blame to miraculously appear 
and put all your wrongs to right.
How much longer do you want to wait,
while the world calls your name to help make it turn the other way?
Take up all your problems in your arms and hold them dear.
These are all the excuses and resistances you have to growing powerful. They are not your enemies, but your beloved companions. 
Love them. Bless them. Take their gift and set them free.
It's time to grow. 
Come back to you.
Stand. For. You.

And love everything you've been avoiding.
Then you'll see the way.
Then you'll know how.
Then you can act On Purpose.

If you're trying to break free from someone in your life, 
or let's say, a situation, limiting belief or un-wanted feeling,
the last thing you should do is pull away.

Imagine that you have a living cord between you, like an umbilical cord.
You've been sharing your energies with this 'other' through this cord. Information, love, needs, feelings etc have been flowing both ways.

Pulling or pushing puts painful pressure and tension on the connection.
You might think you can snap this connection. You can't.
You might think you can cut it, but you can't.
You probably try to switch off the thoughts and feelings, but you can't.
You're a human, not a machine.

The cord can stretch like a bungee, giving you a temporary feeling of freedom 
as you gain some sense of distance from them.
But your position hasn't really changed. 
You are still connected.

You will either get stuck and stranded in the dark, 
cling on to something or someone else ahead of you for comfort,
or bounce right back to where you started. 


People say time heals.
It doesn't. It just buries and hides what we choose not to focus on.
And there's only so many drugs or medications you can take to keep numbing the pain.

Wherever there is something precious being avoided, there is pain.
Pain remains, awaiting something powerful, 
awaiting that you give enough to dissolve the connection peacefully, 
to resolve and restore the harmony on both sides.

Ultimately, whether it's this year or next year,
this life time or the next life-time, for your greatest joy, peace and wellbeing,
you will have to turn and face the very thing you want to get away from.

'Getting rid' of what we don't want doesn't work. 
Like the rubbish we throw away in the bin every day -
it might leave our house of bricks and mortar, but it doesn't leave our home of this planet.
The responsibility is simply shifted, so we get space from it to carry on with our 'normal' lives.
But all that rubbish is meanwhile building up and polluting the very organism upon which we depend.
It's kind of crazy, yet we do it.

We cannot escape our rights of ownership and stay in denial. 

If you're in pain it's because you left something valuable behind.
Something very valuable of yourself; 
something also worth honouring and being grateful for.

You must go back and reclaim your power. 
You must go back and regain responsibility and act from consciousness.
You must go back and look your enemy, your mother, father or lover in the eye,
and see the soul that helped you to grow.
See the soul that wants you to evolve.
See the soul that helped you to remember and know; 
That you are the love you are looking for, and
You hold the keys to your freedom.

And when you have reclaimed all that was truly yours,
and when you have given back what is truly theirs,
the ties are undone, with reverence, and an honouring of the truth,
then the situation will depart from your reality in peace.

Love cannot be dumped like rubbish.
Nor can it be pushed away and denied or hidden.
It demands our fullest attention.
It hammers down our doors and walls to be let in.
Loves voice must be heard and all things be humbley forgiven.


Take into your heart the only thing that truly lasts forever, surpassing all else;
The love that was, is and always will be, yours to own.



All my love
Tara 



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We all want more Love ~ we all need it.
It’s the food of the soul.
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All suffering, complaints and hurts are born from the lack of Love, when we’re not getting enough of love, or seeing enough love around us in our environment. Wherever we look there is a starving, a striving, a need for more; a world in tatters & tears. We’re in short supply it seems, and what we do have going around just isn’t enough to satiate the hungry. We make great efforts to aid, rescue and save our fellow man, to make peaceful bonds with our father and mother, and to create lasting unions with special others. Yet in a world population that’s growing steadily more lost and insane from the pressure of living in dying economies, fractured families and war-torn states, our efforts can easily feel hopeless and in vane. Can we give enough to make The Difference without chasing our tails and feeling drained? Is our love hitting the mark?


We know that Love itself is an infinite resource, and that love is all we need, so what’s going wrong? Why is our giving not making ends meet? 
We might reason that if everybody loved their neighbour and made it their duty to make 1 other person happy, it could eventually come full circle and everybody would be loved. However, it’s more likely to breed an ever-increasing dependency rather than fostering the life changing qualities of reclamation, ownership, independence and empowerment needed for a revolution that is only born from taking responsibility. 


To learn to love oneself utterly and completely is the hardest task. It’s much easier to direct our good intentions, well wishing helpfulness and compassion to others, especially when we deem them more in need than we are. But ultimately, since we do not yet fully understand what it means to truly love, could it be that we are giving less than the full package? Before serving a meal we first need to be taste it. What if we are serving a great idea of love that is perhaps surreptitiously loaded with the toxicity of self-denial, low self worth, and other such insidious and un-delicious things that we’ve inherited from our ancestral history? Is it possible that we so acutely feel what’s wrong in the world that in our attempts to make right, we actually just rehash and re-serve what we think is the opposite to what we’ve experienced? 


Unconditional love is energy of, and unto itself. It is not linear or dualistic. It is omnipresent, divine and whole. It exists everywhere and underlies all other personal or universal conditions placed upon it. Love is perhaps something that needs to be uncovered and realised, rather than idealized or theorized, as we tend to do. And how would we know when the love we strive to give is unconditional? Well, if we tested it before we offered it, we would know. We would tell how it feels if we first loved ourselves. 


We could practise the evolutionary art of bringing love to our own hidden demons, closeted grievances and buried shames. We could shed the light upon the pain of our own hearts, the wounds of our own pasts and learn to love what even we deem impossible to love of ourselves. In cleaning up our own act of love, learning to relate and bond with ourselves unconditionally, may we then be qualified to be a true servant to the world. 


Loving ourselves to our deepest, darkest caverns is how to awaken the creative dragons who sleep where we fear to venture. Unimaginable treasures await, gifts we didn’t know we had, hero stories in the making, inspirations and our secret aspirations are exhumed to illuminate the world. In feeling totality and peace within we become warriors, capable of making shifts in epic proportions. 


From co-dependency, exhaustion, depression and lack we might transition to the inter-dependent, empowered, conscious individual we were born to become, contributing and fulfilling our greatest potential. Loving unconditionally that which we humanly are, by that may we ascend, and know what it is to love. Then may we become the leaders of change that we seek to be.  Then may we become love masters; conscious beings having original conscious thoughts, making conscious actions, conscious decisions and loving responses to a world gone mad without love. 


We are the Love we are looking for.

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