If you're trying to break free from someone in your life, 
or let's say, a situation, limiting belief or un-wanted feeling,
the last thing you should do is pull away.

Imagine that you have a living cord between you, like an umbilical cord.
You've been sharing your energies with this 'other' through this cord. Information, love, needs, feelings etc have been flowing both ways.

Pulling or pushing puts painful pressure and tension on the connection.
You might think you can snap this connection. You can't.
You might think you can cut it, but you can't.
You probably try to switch off the thoughts and feelings, but you can't.
You're a human, not a machine.

The cord can stretch like a bungee, giving you a temporary feeling of freedom 
as you gain some sense of distance from them.
But your position hasn't really changed. 
You are still connected.

You will either get stuck and stranded in the dark, 
cling on to something or someone else ahead of you for comfort,
or bounce right back to where you started. 


People say time heals.
It doesn't. It just buries and hides what we choose not to focus on.
And there's only so many drugs or medications you can take to keep numbing the pain.

Wherever there is something precious being avoided, there is pain.
Pain remains, awaiting something powerful, 
awaiting that you give enough to dissolve the connection peacefully, 
to resolve and restore the harmony on both sides.

Ultimately, whether it's this year or next year,
this life time or the next life-time, for your greatest joy, peace and wellbeing,
you will have to turn and face the very thing you want to get away from.

'Getting rid' of what we don't want doesn't work. 
Like the rubbish we throw away in the bin every day -
it might leave our house of bricks and mortar, but it doesn't leave our home of this planet.
The responsibility is simply shifted, so we get space from it to carry on with our 'normal' lives.
But all that rubbish is meanwhile building up and polluting the very organism upon which we depend.
It's kind of crazy, yet we do it.

We cannot escape our rights of ownership and stay in denial. 

If you're in pain it's because you left something valuable behind.
Something very valuable of yourself; 
something also worth honouring and being grateful for.

You must go back and reclaim your power. 
You must go back and regain responsibility and act from consciousness.
You must go back and look your enemy, your mother, father or lover in the eye,
and see the soul that helped you to grow.
See the soul that wants you to evolve.
See the soul that helped you to remember and know; 
That you are the love you are looking for, and
You hold the keys to your freedom.

And when you have reclaimed all that was truly yours,
and when you have given back what is truly theirs,
the ties are undone, with reverence, and an honouring of the truth,
then the situation will depart from your reality in peace.

Love cannot be dumped like rubbish.
Nor can it be pushed away and denied or hidden.
It demands our fullest attention.
It hammers down our doors and walls to be let in.
Loves voice must be heard and all things be humbley forgiven.


Take into your heart the only thing that truly lasts forever, surpassing all else;
The love that was, is and always will be, yours to own.



All my love
Tara 



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We all want more Love ~ we all need it.
It’s the food of the soul.
​
All suffering, complaints and hurts are born from the lack of Love, when we’re not getting enough of love, or seeing enough love around us in our environment. Wherever we look there is a starving, a striving, a need for more; a world in tatters & tears. We’re in short supply it seems, and what we do have going around just isn’t enough to satiate the hungry. We make great efforts to aid, rescue and save our fellow man, to make peaceful bonds with our father and mother, and to create lasting unions with special others. Yet in a world population that’s growing steadily more lost and insane from the pressure of living in dying economies, fractured families and war-torn states, our efforts can easily feel hopeless and in vane. Can we give enough to make The Difference without chasing our tails and feeling drained? Is our love hitting the mark?


We know that Love itself is an infinite resource, and that love is all we need, so what’s going wrong? Why is our giving not making ends meet? 
We might reason that if everybody loved their neighbour and made it their duty to make 1 other person happy, it could eventually come full circle and everybody would be loved. However, it’s more likely to breed an ever-increasing dependency rather than fostering the life changing qualities of reclamation, ownership, independence and empowerment needed for a revolution that is only born from taking responsibility. 


To learn to love oneself utterly and completely is the hardest task. It’s much easier to direct our good intentions, well wishing helpfulness and compassion to others, especially when we deem them more in need than we are. But ultimately, since we do not yet fully understand what it means to truly love, could it be that we are giving less than the full package? Before serving a meal we first need to be taste it. What if we are serving a great idea of love that is perhaps surreptitiously loaded with the toxicity of self-denial, low self worth, and other such insidious and un-delicious things that we’ve inherited from our ancestral history? Is it possible that we so acutely feel what’s wrong in the world that in our attempts to make right, we actually just rehash and re-serve what we think is the opposite to what we’ve experienced? 


Unconditional love is energy of, and unto itself. It is not linear or dualistic. It is omnipresent, divine and whole. It exists everywhere and underlies all other personal or universal conditions placed upon it. Love is perhaps something that needs to be uncovered and realised, rather than idealized or theorized, as we tend to do. And how would we know when the love we strive to give is unconditional? Well, if we tested it before we offered it, we would know. We would tell how it feels if we first loved ourselves. 


We could practise the evolutionary art of bringing love to our own hidden demons, closeted grievances and buried shames. We could shed the light upon the pain of our own hearts, the wounds of our own pasts and learn to love what even we deem impossible to love of ourselves. In cleaning up our own act of love, learning to relate and bond with ourselves unconditionally, may we then be qualified to be a true servant to the world. 


Loving ourselves to our deepest, darkest caverns is how to awaken the creative dragons who sleep where we fear to venture. Unimaginable treasures await, gifts we didn’t know we had, hero stories in the making, inspirations and our secret aspirations are exhumed to illuminate the world. In feeling totality and peace within we become warriors, capable of making shifts in epic proportions. 


From co-dependency, exhaustion, depression and lack we might transition to the inter-dependent, empowered, conscious individual we were born to become, contributing and fulfilling our greatest potential. Loving unconditionally that which we humanly are, by that may we ascend, and know what it is to love. Then may we become the leaders of change that we seek to be.  Then may we become love masters; conscious beings having original conscious thoughts, making conscious actions, conscious decisions and loving responses to a world gone mad without love. 


We are the Love we are looking for.

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Stop your eyes from gazing and stand still, deep in mine.
Can you see me seeing you, gently yearning to be let in?
I’m looking for a taster sip of intimacy, come, into me see. Know this.
Notice the lusciousness of my longing. And show me yours. 
And open just a crack more than you’ve ever dared before,
brazen, blazing, bold and golden in your return stare.
Does your soul see my soul, or do you pretend to be aware?
Unveil your game, reveal the flame.
Meet me in that place of Truth.



And utter words, so soft, so strong
so as not to be misunderstood. 
Cascade your caring fearlessly, let it tumble from your lips,
Let it flood; Generous as the sky pouring rain to thirsty petal tips.
Speak directly, intentionally, synchronised with heart, vulnerability aloud
Hold this moment open, hold your presence open in your power of this Now.
Tick your talk like the hands of the clock, beating us present.
Behold my glow as boldly you show. 
Meet me in this place of Truth.



Tell me what you see in the universe of my eyes.
and i’ll drink in your every morsel. I will not run and hide.
Hold still whilst I let you in. Be without as you are within. Humbled.
I am multi layered, deeper, wider, more cavernous than the earth.
I can see what you were, are now, and will be, 
I see you beyond your death and birth.
We are both ravenous and wild underneath this domesticated child. 
Yield your ego, subside your mind, and let us both not be blind.
Meet me in this place of truth.



For when I was born, you were bound to be my king
and without even knowing you stumbled across and fell right on in
to the hallowed ground, the safety net, the borders of my world,
and there you lay drunk on pain, knocked unconscious, arrogant and vain
with barbs of loss and thorns of wrongly gotten gains jutting from your sides
You were bleeding, drowning in the lies that even you did not recognise.
Aren’t you tired of your disguise?
Here you are, the story’s out, this golden moment quivers.
Meet me in this place of truth.



You were born to find me, half broken, my innocence un-intact
a queen in tatters through love-starvation, years of longing, regret and lack
with broken bones of maidenhood and covered in the dust of lust. 
My trust dishevelled.
Now like the ruby on kabir’s road, see me for all I’m worth.
A gem amongst the rocks and stones, I am your beauty, heart and Hearth.
Our precious meeting begs you, don’t pass this ruby by.
Our innocence cannot die in love. I am you and you are I.
Who but you could see, and hold this sacredly? 
Meet me in that place of Truth.



When I open my heart to meet you, it’s my own heart I meet first.
And yours is just the same, we meet faith, a sudden burst
where we are begged to be forgiven and all ‘sins’ be undone.
We could flee in fear of mortal death or burn alive in this renewing sun. 
Love lights what must be seen, love illuminates what must be done
Let love eclipse the shadows, and day balance out the night.
Does the world need another war? Can we just revel in love’s delight?
What you fear and long for is but a reflection of your soul.
I’ll see you in this place of Truth.



Until you’re slain and rise again, a king cannot be crowned. 
And I am not a goddess, I’m not whole ’til I’m re-birthed
Let us kneel and humble, let our shields and weapons ground.
Love’s mercy comes to fill our lungs and make the stories heal.
To still our One soul, the one we know can never be apart
Together we are whole, together a united state of Being starts
Love gives us the green light, time’s up, let’s go all the way
and not stop till morning comes, immersed in tantric sway.
In love’s homely temple lets raise this roof.
I await you naked in this place of truth.



Tara Love Perry
2016

We're taught love is hard, love is painful and love is a compromise. We are taught that love is blind, love is hard to find and that we should strive to love another unconditionally for true love to blossom. Well I think that's all rubbish. That's not the truth of love at all, unless we make it so by imposing our preconditioned experiences on top of the sublime, expansive and enlightening presence that True Love Is.
We create painful love by searching for love from a place of pain, a place of unmet need, a place of aching, longing, self sacrificing greed. We are starving to be met, and so we hunt. We devour our other of life essence in an attempt to satisfy the gut, the gutted inner child and empty yearning heart. And pain begets more pain. We feed from it, becoming addicted to it, deluded by it, caught in the trap of suffering, to be loved just enough to keep our heart beating and our life's meaning worth living...

Until we meet our nemesis, our equal and opposite force created to shatter the illusions and grandeur of painful love; Our anti-match, so opposing to our vibration that it shakes us, breaks us, and decimates the false premise that we are not truly loveable. This is part of the twin flame's game. We attract the shadow to show us our fears. We attract personification of our own self-love deficit and arrears. We attract a kind-of-love that makes it all clear where we have failed to love ourselves in truth and honour. But is this love true?

This anti-love, this painful love, this real-seeming love is the bomb to collapse the ego. It brings down defence towers.  It levels the playing field. It equalises and demagnetises. Then Love's game can begin, with free reign to play if the players are willing to be open and be remade by Love. If not, the match must split, for two opposing forces cannot exist in the same space without destroying one another in the battle to secure tenure of Love. Exit Pain. 

With self love we cleanse and restore the heart's wounds. With compassion we seek our own redemption. With humility we allow truth's soothing balm. We return to Grace, knowing our heart.
Enter Love. True Love, free Love, Love without condition. Love without compromise, Love without disgrace. Love without suffering. For Love has no attachment, it IS only Love. And so may two souls recognise the other, seeing the innocent, unfettered face of Love's Presence within. 


Tara Love Perry.


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